Good Late Evening Readers,
Let me go ahead and warn you for all the triggers involved in this blog post. Trigger Warnings: I openly talk about racism (from both sides of the argument, because I’ve experienced it myself…), I use strong language, I rant about Netflix and I talk about one of my favorite Disney films “Zootopia”; so if you don’t want to read it. Don’t continue reading this, post! Thanks.
Alright, so this first paragraph is in dedication to the white supremacists and all the horrors I’ve seen about them on the news and online. And I know, I might receive death threats but too bad… I think white privilege is a real thing and I think the Neo-Nazi shit is disgusting! I do NOT support this shit, I think it’s fucked up and it should be stopped. I also think anyone who does the Neo-Nazis, white supremacy and/or the KKK should not be allowed to have access to the internet, in general. So, yes, I’m not a white supremacist. I think that shit is horrendous, disgusting and evil! I think those who are should be put in prison on death row, at the very least… But that’s just the first half of this rant. I get even more controversial!
This second paragraph, is in dear dedication to all the African-American and/or Black People (I don’t know which one is politically correct, anymore…) who are racist as well. I’m not saying there is such as “black supremacy”, because quite frankly, I don’t really know if there is or not. But I do know, there are racist people who are black! How do I know this? From my own fucking life experiences, when I was elementary school; there was this little black girl whom I never talked to, in my life who bullied me to the point of tears. She said, “Your parents are the reason, why slaves existed!”, “Your family is evil!”, “Your people are the bad people! You should have more respect for people, who have earned it!”. Now, if anyone wants to try and tell me that what she said to me, wasn’t racist. You’re racist! End of discussion, as far as I’m concerned. Now, let’s continue this ranting on reverse racism… I don’t know my ancestors, but I do know that I have roots in Native America. That’s right Native Americans, I have brown eyes from those roots. And I know, a bit about the pains that Native Americans have suffered… So, if you think, I’m racist for even talking about this actual shit that’s actually happened – Think again!
And yes, I do have roots in Europe. But that does NOT mean, I have roots with slave-traders. Like, I said I don’t know the full history of my ancient ancestors. And I don’t think I should be held responsible for crimes, that I, in my own generation, did NOT commit. But that little racist girl in elementary wasn’t the last time, I dealt with reverse racism… I’ve dealt with racism multiple times, throughout my life. And guess, what? I like hip-hop music! Does that mean, I think I can be a black person? Fuck no! I’m not fucking ignorant… Oh, yea! And do you assume because I’m white, that I grew up in a loving home with all the privileges; a white girl could have? Do you? Think again, bitches!
Guess what, I grew up in a seemingly perfect suburb. Where sometimes all I had for dinner was popcorn and peanut butter sandwiches; my dad was drug addict. Yes, he was white. Shocking, right? While I still look up to my mom, as an example of a superwoman; there were times where we were both suffering in hell in that house in Montevallo, Alabama. Sometimes, we didn’t always have money for clothes; so we went to the thrift store. And there’s nothing wrong with the thrift store, believe me, I still love seeking bargains there. Now, I bet you’re wondering “Why are you telling me this?”, “Is this a guilt trip?”. No, it’s not a guilt trip. It’s an insight into the life of me, a 21-year-old white girl who’s been working her way up from the bottom. Whether anyone believes me or not! And for those of you who have read my first couple of blogs, I was bullied severely in elementary school by people of all kinds. So, just keep that in mind; if you want to continue to believe that all white people were privileged and had it easy growing up. Because, guess what? I can speak for myself, I wasn’t and I didn’t!
Now, onto the reason why I hate the title of “Dear White People” that is currently a show on Netflix, that may or may not ever watch… It’s kind of like saying, “Dear Muslims, you’re all terrorists”. Yes, that’s how I interpret the title. “Dear White People, in truth you’re all privileged supremacists”. That’s what I hear! And is it okay? No! Maybe, the show isn’t fully racist, but the title IS. And not only is racist, it’s a form a stereotyping. For anyone who is African-American reading this; how would you feel if I titled this blog “Dear Black People”? You’d probably be offended, wouldn’t you? Well? Don’t pretend, because it is an offensive thing to use that term. For any race! Racial stereotyping is WRONG. That’s it! Also, it’s up to me if I decide to watch the show. So if anyone wants to comment calling me “racist” for “not watching the show” and “understanding the truths in it”; you’re racist. I have a right to be offended, by racial stereotyping. And I don’t just get offended by black people stereotyping white people; and no, it’s not fair. It’s wrong!
I get offended by anyone stereotyping anyone! I don’t think all Muslims are terrorists, I don’t all immigrants should be separated from the families; I don’t think all black people are the same (i.e. thugs, drug dealers, pimps). Those are stereotypes, that I don’t believe about people! You know what, turns me on or turns me off to people? They’re fucking personality and how they treat others! If you’re a respectful, kind, loving person and you treat others with respect then it doesn’t matter what race you are; I don’t have a problem with you. Where I have a problem is people who say they’re “wonderful” and are phony as hell; and don’t deserve half of the accolades they receive. The cosplay community, is my go-to explain and my ex “Endo” is a perfect example. And he’s white (actually he’s French-Hispanic but that’s not really on my mind, to be honest…); he’s a white fuckboy and a total narcissist! And yet, his page is full of fangirls adoring him… Why? Because he’s a master manipulator, who is a phony, lying, womanizing waste of humanity! And yes, some people are wastes of humanity in my opinion. Including my last ex, we’ll call him “Prince Eric”; who was as white as they come… And he was just a lazy bum-ass bitch, who needs to realize if he wants real love, he’s going to have to work his ass for it! Relationships don’t happen without people being willing to work with each-other.
Which leads me to my next point, that little movie you may have heard of owned by Disney… “Zootopia”! Now, I’ll be clear, I do cosplay Judy Hopps (rabbit ears and all!) and I truly identify with her character… And you know what I love about this movie? It addresses racial stereotyping, although it’s somewhat indirect. But for those of us, who are intelligent; I’m sure we all figured it out fairly quickly. This movie is amazing! And not only that, the messages are beautiful… It talks about unity and trying everything in order to make at least a little positive change, in the world! And I agree with those messages fully. “Not all predators are savage”, let’s take that and apply that to humanity, shall we? Not all black people are stereotypical thugs and strippers. And going further on that, there’s nothing wrong with being a stripper, in my opinion. Yes, I’m a fan of Cardi B and I think everyone should be respected for what they do to pay their bills. I personally don’t have the physical strength to dance in the club, but I respect women who can dance in the club. I’m not one of them, though… But not all black women fall into that category. And it’s irresponsible to assume that! Also, not all white people are Trump supporting, Neo-Nazi members of the KKK. And it’s extremely irresponsible to label all white people, as such. Just saying… Not all Asians are bad drivers, nor are all Asians math geniuses. Although there’s wrong with being a math genius, in my opinion; doesn’t matter what your race is! And I’m first to admit, math is not my strongest subject. Not because I’m blonde and white; it’s because I actually math learning disability in my brain. It’s how I’m wired mentally; and I have it on paper. So, if you want me to show you the evidence; I can always contact my therapist.
Anyway, I just want those few of you who are still reading… I’m going to end with by saying, “Dear Humanity”. Dear Humanity: Aren’t we divided enough? Do we really need to shove each-other’s “truths” down our throats? I think, everyone has their own truth and opinions. And everyone is entitled to have both. What’s wrong with respecting people; and having the guts to civilly agree to disagree. Am I evil, to you, now? I think it takes true bravery to avoid stereotyping people and actually give people a chance, to prove you wrong. So, dear humanity… What’s wrong with me speaking my mind? That’s all I have to say.
Thanks For Reading This Rant,
Sukai Todd! xoxo